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find a way to become used to it,
, no matter how many times it can occur. Hence giving
words of encouragement to a person who has lost someone is not an easy task
to carry.If you want to know what kind of words to use say your pal has lost someone you will
have to go through the following article.
There is time for everything
There are no exact words that can be used since
people react differently from each other. My first words of encouragement for the loss of a loved
one are from the bible that is from the book of Ecclesiastes 3:1-4 where it is
mentioned that there is time to be born and die, a time to tear down and a time to build up, time to mourn and a time to dance. From
this verse you will see that all that happens was planned by God. After reading that to a pal he
or she will realize that there is time for everything.
Cry out to heal
One of the best words of encouragement for the
loss of a loved one will be to tell them to cry. Crying is a door to healing. I remember when my
sister died I didn’t want to cry I thought that if I did that will mean I am
letting her go in my life. One of my friends told me about a verse in the bible where by
Jesus wept when he found that Lazarus died and he was close with God.
So who are you not to cry? Cry so that you will be healed. Other words that you can tell to
people during their loss will be that their relatives’ soul will forever be
with them, where ever they are. Also they should take their loved ones as their
angels.
Talk with your friends
Another way that you can do is to talk with them.
Try to tell them killing themselves won’t solve the solution, but then if they want to be with
their relatives they should put their faith in God. They should also be strong in the Lord and
start serving the Lord faithfully. Those are some of the words of encouragement for the loss of a loved one
that you can do some were the things that you could do.
Summary
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One thing about death is that you will never find the
correct word to comfort certain person.
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That makes it clear how difficult it is to encourage
someone who have lost a relative.
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There are no precise words that you can actually use but
then there are words like it will be ok that needs to be stopped.
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One of the verses that you can give to a person when he or she
lost someone can be one from Ecclesiastes where the word of God states it clear that
there is time for everything.
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Crying is one way to someone’s healing, talk to your
friends and tell them of the benefits that they have.
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